Thicke Sisters Happier

29 Feb

Keeping a positive self image with all the isht that has been unloaded on black women over the centuries in America is indeed a miracle of resilience. There is a difference between “Thicke” and “fat” though…

Black women heavier and happier with their bodies than white women, poll finds

In the pre-dawn darkness, the gym doors close, and the black women start to move. House versions of Whitney Houston’s “I’m Every Woman,” and Adele’s “Rolling in the Deep,” blare from speakers as the 30 or so women, most with curves, not angles, grab their jump ropes at the L.A. Fitness club in Capitol Heights. They double-time it as fitness instructor Michelle Gibson counts them down from the front of the class.

“Four more, three more, two more, one!” she yells, twirling her rope. She jumps faster and faster until the rope and her sneakers blur on the hardwood. Her ample bosom strains against the top of her sequined half-camisole.

“Show-off!” yells a woman from the back as Gibson laughs. She demonstrates hinge-kicks high above her own head, and sweat darkens the waistband of the fitted black pants that cling to the uber-roundness of her bottom. “Fight for your sexy!” she commands her class.

No one in this boot camp works out to be model thin. And nearly to a person, they reject any notion that they should, or that that standard is even cute. Or realistic. Or mentally healthy. That’s especially true of Gibson, 41, who has been a fitness instructor for 12 years, though you wouldn’t necessarily know it by looking at her.

Like many black women, Gibson describes her 5-foot-4, size 14-plus physique as “thick,” and considers herself ultra-feminine — no matter what the mainstream culture has to say about it.

She’s one of the most full-figured women in the gym, but she’s in love with her body. And it’s a sentiment that syncs perfectly with a recent survey conducted by The Washington Post and the Kaiser Family Foundation that focused on African American women. The poll found that although black women are heavier than their white counterparts, they report having appreciably higher levels of self-esteem. Although 41 percent of average-sized or thin white women report having high self-esteem, that figure was 66 percent among black women considered by government standards to be overweight or obese.

This is not news to Gibson or the other women in her morning boot camp class. They grew up listening to songs like the Commodores’s “Brick House” and hearing relatives extol the virtues of “big legs” and women with meat on their bones.

The notion that all women must be culled into a single little-bitty aesthetic is just one more tyranny, they say. And black women have tools for resisting tyranny, especially from a mainstream culture that has historically presented them negatively, or not at all.

Freed from that high-powered media gaze, generations of black women have fashioned their own definitions of beauty with major assists from literature and music — and help from their friends.

At this gym in Capitol Heights at the crack of dawn, and in myriad other places, that thinking has made black women happier with their bodies than white women in many ways. And in some ways, it’s put them on the slippery slope toward higher rates of obesity…


Posted by on February 29, 2012 in The Post-Racial Life


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2 responses to “Thicke Sisters Happier

  1. brotherbrown

    February 29, 2012 at 3:17 PM

    In the first place, I think self-esteem is so individualized that generalizations really don’t matter. If you have low self esteem, whether you are shaped like a pear or have the baddest physique in 50 states, you may still jump off a building in a particularly low moment

    Secondly, I have a problem with the concept of BMI (body mass index) as a rule of thumb about who is the correct weight for their height. My highest all-time weight was 238. I’m thirty-some pounds lighter today, and although you may have looked at me at that and considered me “a little heavy” or “overweight,” according to BMI, I was obese. But now, at 205, I’m still considered overweight on the BMI scale, and should weigh-in at something like 189. I’m 6-1 and

    Physical exercise, proper rest, food in moderation, multi-vitamins and intimacy are my personal prescription for physical well-being. As for mental well-being, we all have to know ourselves, and be willing to address areas of improvement.


    • btx3

      February 29, 2012 at 3:42 PM

      I’m not sure the BMI thing works, either. I agree the perfect weight-height is different for different folks, dependent on things like bone structure.

      But I think one of the points of the article is the “popular” concept of beauty as a rail thin woman is in itself unhealthy.



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